Not only does Dr. Ruth want you to get some, she wants it to be the best you’ve ever had.

The 80-year-old has used her extensive knowledge to pen Dr. Ruth’s Top 10 Secrets for Great Sex (Wiley). Tips for loving it every time include making sex a priority, telling your partner what you want, embracing afterplay and being aware of how intimacy changes over time.

Visit drruth.com for a special section for those 50 and over. Read up!

– Athena McKenzie